Joel's Journey: Memorial Day

Monday, May 25, 2015

Memorial Day

Our holidays are not like they use to be. Everyone does their own thing now days. Elijah was in Missouri on a fishing trip. Bethany was with Charlie, her roommate in Galveston, Micah played golf all day, and the rest of us were here at the house. We had pizza and potatoes out of the garden! It use to be big cook out, and everyone was here. Gone are those days.

Anna moves tomorrow to Indiana permanently. She will live with marks sister. It's just the next step for her and mark. Hopefully she can find a job! Elijah is thinking of moving out by the end of summer. He's just ready for a change of pace and something new! I don't blame them. I want all my kids to go and experience all they can!!

Hope everyone had a day of remembering. Thank you to all that gave to give us our freedom!

1 comment:

Teena said...: Thinking of you. I love when you blog! I love hearing more. Maybe because I have followed you for 8 yrs and watched the kids grow...

I do understand!

Here too....

Hugs; May 30, 2015 at 1:05 PM

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Joel's Story

Joel, our 11th of 13 and a twin of Josiah, at age 3 was diagnosed with Neuroblastoma, a childhood cancer, on December 6th, 2006. Joel had three perfect years of health and he and Josiah celebrated their 3rd birthday Sept. 13th, 2006. The first of Oct. Joel started having unexplained fevers for a few days and would return to active play. After the fourth round of fevers we took him to our family Dr. which they said his iron was low, so we treated that for a few weeks and took him back only to have his hemo. showing lower than before. We were referred to a hematologists and saw him a few weeks with blood checks twice a week. At a visit on Dec. 4th we showed the Dr. the bumps, (which were tumors but we did not know at the time) on Joel's head and he was very concerned and we were told we needed to admit him immediately and start extensive tests the following day. Joel went through rigorous testing and then the dreaded results were given. Joel was at a stage IV the most extensive stage, but we were hopeful that the Lord would use the means of Chemotherapy treatments to restore Joel's body. Joel endured 8 1/2 days in the hospital, came home for Christmas, and returned for his second round of chemo Jan. 3, 2007. Joel had a seizure that night after midnight and went into a coma due to a tumor bleeding in his head area and causing his brain to swell. After tests the following days, the Dr. declared Joel "brain dead" and took us to court to force us to take Joel off life support, as we did not agree with the medical field's definition of death. Our family sought to stand with the scripture, "life is in the blood,"and until Joel's heart quit beating naturally, he was living. We were making arrangements to bring him home and on January 23, 2007 his little heart stopped beating and he went to be with the Lord Jesus in heaven. Our lives are changed forever. God is faithful in the midst of this trial and we look with great hope to be with him someday.